Perspective is one of those words in the English language that can be interpreted in multiple ways. It can be used when describing the style of a photograph. Or it can be used to describe a mental view or outlook.
Yesterday morning I rose early to catch a train up to Connecticut for a quick in and out trip. My newest niece is turning one year old in a few days and I met up with my sister and her two daughters for a quick photo shoot. My sister had this hot air balloon idea and I helped her create that from my perspective.
On the way to the shoot, I took a familiar route on the Metro-North through towns I've visited several times over. During my ride, it occurred to me that it was the 9th anniversary of my Auntie's passing. Auntie raised and loved me for much of my life and I miss her dearly. Facebook's "On This Day" feature reminded me of how I've memorialized her on July 2nd over the years and it brought tears to my eyes. I can't believe so much time has passed.
As the train moved through familiar towns, memories and emotions flooded. And then, it hit me. I am headed to a town I shared so many memories with my Auntie growing up, to spend some time with my sister and my nieces. An old friend once told me, the best way to honor my Auntie is to be the best Aunt I can be. I took those words to heart and I am working on that daily.
So, on a day that brings so much sadness, I was right where I needed to be. Perspective.
The cutest (soon-to-be) 1 year old of 2017 - my niece Mila!